Dad

Whenever there is a discussion about role model or inspiration, I don't look beyond my home. I have a role model to emulate in my Dad. He has been everything that I ever wanted to be, and has been showing me the path to follow since I don't know when.

The quality I like the most about Dad is he has stood by his principles at all times, in all adversities, and taught us the same. We've never compromised with what we want to do with our lives and this couldn't have been possible without his support. Be it my first travel abroad, choice of time to get married or my plans for post graduation, he understood my aspirations and supported them despite concerns raised by so-called 'well-wishers'. I've never been afraid to speak my mind out and follow my heart, mainly because of his confidence in me and my inherent trust that he'd support me if I'm doing something right. And I've never been disappointed. Dads are always special for girls, more so for me.

I haven't slept in my Mom's lap as often as Dad's as a kid. I've attended family functions, been to relatives' places more often with Dad than with Mom. If I had something to ask for during my adolescent years, I'd approach Dad - mainly because of the inherent trust that he wouldn't say 'No' if it's a valid request.

I take extreme pride in the fact that well-learned people from the companies that my Dad does business with sing praises of his professionalism and business acumen. His professional friends tell us that we're blessed for having a father like him, and we of course nod in agreement.

Even in the tough time that we're going through right now, he is an example to follow. I still can't forget the image of him feeling helpless and collapsing on the floor when we received that dreaded phone call, crying into the phone to the police inspector to help save my brother. We faced the worst and unimaginable tragedy of our lives. Yet, Dad conceals his concerns and insecurities to listen to and understand Mom's, sister's and my pain and sorrow. All of us have lost our cool at some time due to the pain and frustrations that are building up inside us, but there he is, still a pillar of strength, bundle of affection and a source of inspiration. 

There can be no one like him as far as I'm concerned, and would be glad if I become even a fraction of what he is as a person. I know he will sail past this, and get us there too.

Blessed for being your daughter - Happy Birthday, Dad!